Sooooooo!

First, I want to thank you for playing full out over the last month. It’s been AWESOME bringing you the Claim Your Power program! We blew through our expectations and goals for the program, and I can’t wait for it to start next week!

I’m on cloud nine today and loving you so much!!

Today – I wanna talk to you about how to build soul relationships.

AND – I’m happy to announce that my weekly coaching video series has a new name – Power & Purpose.

It’ll be weekly coaching videos and soon a brand new podcast – so that you can get all my training to bring your purpose to life in that format too!

More Mastin = a better life.

So, without further adieu, I bring you our next episode of Power & Purpose TV.

Do you feel like you are in the spiritual closet and have to hide what you really think or believe? Or maybe like the relationships in your life lack depth? Do you feel like you are missing out on being really seen and that you have to hide you who you are to fit in?

Or – do you crave to have deeper, more meaningful relationships? I’m talking all kinds of relationships – romantic, friends, family – you name it.

You want that good stuff…

Today, right now – I’m going to teach you how to create this.

The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships. 

And – here’s the truth – if you feel like you can’t be yourself in your relationships, you are signing up for Pain Highway.

Let’s take the next off ramp of Pain Highway and get you onto the Awesome Relationship Freeway.

More love. More growth. More fun. More connection. Sharing your truth and not being judged. Not having to pretend everything is not as good as it really is because you might bum someone else out.

No more hiding. Only love. Only joy. Only connection.

Sound good?

I want to know:

What exact steps are you going to take starting NOW to create real, soul to soul relationships in your life? And, what would you life look like if you did?

Leave a comment below let me know!

Make it a great week! I’m sending you so much love and a big hug.

Now get out there, take action & make it real.

Your biggest cheerleader,

Mastin

[Begin Transcript]

Hello and welcome to Power & Purpose TV! I’m you’re host Mastin Kipp, and I’m coming to you today from Maui, one of my favorite places in the world! We’re filming today at Lumeria, Maui. You can hear the birds and it’s a beautiful day today.

Today I want to talk to you about how to build soul to soul relationships. This is our brand new, rebranded weekly coaching video and podcast called Power & Purpose TV. We’ve been in the middle of this Claim Your Power launch, we’ve had just thousands and thousands of people participating in this launch and it’s been so incredible to be a part of this launch and to see so many people looking towards their purpose. So this new episode and this new show is called Power & Purpose because we’ve found that purpose is something that is very important to you.

Part of living your purpose is having soul to soul relationships. A lot of people that I meet, they have relationships that are surface-level or they’re based on how much money you’re making or because you are just in the same family and happen to be related, and what I’ve noticed is that a lot of the people who are coming to me or who are commenting and maybe for you as well, they are really looking for a deeper-level connection, really a soul to soul connection.

What is your soul?

That soul, that soul essence is that part of you that knows what’s really true for you, the things that you really want to say, the things that come from your heart. And so a lot of times it can be scary to have those types of relationships because the group that you’re in may not accept this part of you. We’ve had a lot of people who come out of the spiritual closet if you know what i’m saying. And so if you’re in the spiritual closet or if you want to come out of the spiritual closet or if you’re out of the spiritual closet and you don’t have a tribe of people, the question is how do you build soul to soul relationships?

Here are a few things you have to do.

First, it’s important to set boundaries with people who are no longer on your wavelength or no longer resonating with the path that you’re on. This does not mean that you’re more spiritual than them, but it does mean that it’s okay to set boundaries with people who maybe don’t understand this new journey that you’re on.

The next thing that you want to do is you want to actually have the courage to start speaking up and talking about the things that matter to you. If you want to talk about meditation or prayer, or if you want to talk about your ability to manifest or co-create, or if you want to talk about purpose or these deeper-level existential topics, you are allowed to and you have permission to talk about these things. Now here’s the thing, when you start talking about these things maybe on social media or at home or with your family, certain people aren’t going to resonate with that topic and that is okay. Totally fine. But, you’re also going to start bringing people who do resonate with that topic.

And here’s the thing, if you have a thing where you feel like, “Man, I’m just not feeling seen. There is a part of me that wishes I could be seen,” well one of the reasons why you’re not being seen is because you’re not showing yourself, you’re not showing that real, authentic side of you to the world.

It takes courage, especially if that part of you has been shut down by friends or family and well into people in your inner circle – not because they are bad people, not because they don’t love you but because they’re on a different path than you are.

So the first thing we want to do is we want to really allow ourselves to set boundaries. Then we want to speak up and then we want to nurture those relationships where we really go deep with someone.

The thing about soul to soul relationships is that someone who is really speaking to you at that level it’s about authenticity, telling the truth, being real with yourself; not being fakey-spiritual where you’re only talking about things that spiritual people talk about like green juice, going gluten free and how enlightened you are.

That’s not a soul to soul relationship. A soul to soul relationship is when you talk about the real stuff – what you’re scared of, what you love, what you want to create, the fears you have about what you want to create.

And then the fourth thing that you want to do is you want to start paying it forward because one of the greatest ways to build soul to soul relationships is to actually improve the lives of other people. So if you can start to improve the lives of other people, you’re going to feel better about yourself, you’re going to get your self-respect back and you’re going to build many, many soul to soul relationships.

That’s something I’m thinking about while I’m here in Maui today. And my great wish for you is for you to have deep, nurturing relationships, relationships where you can be yourself, where you aren’t ridiculed, where you aren’t thinking to yourself, “Oh my goodness! What’s wrong with me? Is there something wrong with me? There’s no one around me who feels this way.” There ARE people who feel this way. You are not alone. You’ve got to show yourself, you’ve got to set boundaries, you’ve got to get out there and tell the truth, and serve other people. And an incredible world of soulful relationships will open up to you. I promise, promise, promise.

You might be watching this video over on Facebook or over on YouTube. I’m going to invite you to come on over to MastinKipp.com, get on my newsletter, sign up for our weekly updates. This is Power & Purpose TV. There are many things in the newsletter and on email that I don’t share anywhere else.

So here’s the assignment today: Who can you set boundaries with? How can you be more honest in your relationships? How can you show yourself in your relationships? How can you nurture the relationships that matter to you? And then, how can you pay all of this forward and serve other people?

I would love to know in the comments below. Please let me know. Thank you so much. Coming to you from Maui this week. So thrilled that you’re a part of this Power & Purpose Tribe. Thank you so much for watching this video.

And one last thing, if there is anybody who you feel could benefit from this video, please feel free to send it to them. You can change their life with one click of a button.

Alright you guys, this is Mastin from Maui saying get out there, take action and make it real!

We’ll see you next week!

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9 thoughts on “How to build soul to soul relationships.

  1. I’m feeling lonely because of setting boundaries and reestablishing who I want to spend my time with. Tell me that by living my purpose (I’m a bookkeeper for small businesses, empowering business owners with the knowledge of their financial situation and consulting to help with cash flow, creating systems, etc) and following my path that I’ll bring more quality to my friend circle and have some of these deeper connections that I do badly want and miss. I’m not sure where to go to make friends.

    1. I recently moved across the country to be able to live the new life I want. I joined several Meetup groups in the nearest city and have been making new friends and going on new adventures with them. It sure has worked for me! Check out Meetup.com for groups in your area.

    2. Find a place to volunteer with something or population you are truely passionate about whether it I’d animals, children, art, music, whatever you like. Volunteer Match is a great place to find an organization to give your love and find friends that have the same passion you do. Good luck and step out there as your true self!
      Kathy F

  2. I think so many people try to mask who they really are as they may be afraid of being judged. People are more comfortable in groups where they know people but then that groups tends to keep them back. It’s interesting when we say to speak up because it’s speaking up out of our comfort zone. Thanks for sharing today.

  3. I love that you show the transcript, as I can read the message much faster and retain it that way. Now, I don’t understand ‘setting boundaries’. That just sounds to me like a buzzword. Maybe I’m too old….but what does that really mean?

  4. thank you so much for this message. This past week I have felt the need to let go of some friendships that are not aligned with my spiritual path. I also realize I need to spend more time with the people who have come into my life and nurture my soul. I feel as though this is the divine message I needed to hear to know I am doing the right thing. Always right here when I need you Mastin.
    Warmly,
    Charity

  5. I’m going to stop spending time chasing after an old friend who doesn’t put time into our relationship anymore. It has become one-sided. (I’m the one who texts and calls. I’m the one always asking for us to do something together.) Well, no longer. I’m going to put that time into people who appreciate me and who want to spend time with me. On the share the love side, I make sure I do a good deed every day. (My parents raised me right!) It could be something as simple as holding a door open or paying someone a compliment. The other day at Walmart, I saw an elderly woman struggling with an umbrella with one arm while trying to put her groceries in the car with her other arm. I approached her with a compliment and a sweet smile and said, “Hon, it’s too cold out here. You go ahead and get in the car. I’ll get these.” After she got over the shock of whether I really meant it, she was grinning from ear to ear as I put her groceries in the trunk, closed it and put her cart in the return. Made my day!

  6. YES YES YES Mastin!! THANK YOU for doing an impeccable job with this subject!! I am 100% with you! I have my own business in Arizona(Purple Unicorn Therapy) that is about helping people heal, reconnect to the deeper parts of themselves, so that they can turn around and share it with their world, letting go of the fear, and establishing those boundary lines to experience better quality life experiences and stability! It all starts with you, and we all need to get out of our own way! LOVE your work, keep on keepin’ on!! 🙂

  7. THANK YOU for all of the healthy and fantastic advice you continue giving.
    It’s vital that people are able to be their genuine self and also learn to perhaps disassociate themselves from those people who make them feel as though they cannot be.
    I come from good/strong Scottish stock and I was blessed at a very young age that it’s OKAY to speak up when I wanted. Therefore, to this day I have the courage to do just that in every aspect of my life.
    Because of this…I truly feel like I have balance.
    Thanks again for being you, being happy and being healthy.
    : )

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